You have been with your partner for over a decade now and your sex life seems to have lost its spark somewhere on the way. Moreover, you can’t seem to figure out where the problem is because both of you are still in love with each other, you both still care for each other and still find each other attractive. But something is missing and you know there is problem somewhere. So, the following sex tips might help you in bringing back the flame that blew off in the wind of life and work:
Take it slow
Sex is not a race to win. It is neither a subway train that will leave the station if you don’t reach on time. It is a union of two bodies and mind into one. It is an act of love which needs to be felt deeply. An exchange of energy that makes your mind, body and soul entwined. So, take it slow. Enjoy every moment of this special connection. Explore your partner and let her explore you and extend the time of your love-making as much as possible.
Give your woman plenty of time
Sex is not a race to win. It is neither a subway train that will leave the station if you don’t reach on time. It is a union of two bodies and mind into one. It is an act of love which needs to be felt deeply. An exchange of energy that makes your mind, body and soul entwined. So, take it slow. Enjoy every moment of this special connection. Explore your partner and let her explore you and extend the time of your love-making as much as possible.
Talk about sex
Talk more about sex instead of talking about paying bills, washing the car, doing the chores or grocery shopping. Be frank with her and also persuade her to be as frank as you are and express yourself freely regarding any questions or doubts you have about your sex life. After all, your sex life not only includes you, it includes your partner as well. So, make her comfortable and ask her if there is anything she wants to share with you regarding the improvement of your sex life.
Exercise together
Exercising with your partner is advantageous physically, sexually and emotionally. Intensive physical activities will not only boost your testosterone level but will also increase her dopamine levels leading both of you to experience greater sexual arousals for each other.
Be creative
Being creative during sex adds an element of surprise in the bed. It will impress your partner greatly as she will know that you are trying to please her more and more. This knowledge will again impact her by making her more receptive of your sexual advances. It will also inspire her to please you in her own way which will in turn ignite your passion in the bed and turn your routine sex into a wonderful night of passionate love-making.
Pass compliments
Women love being complimented. When you compliment your woman, it gives her a sense of confidence and makes her feel very good in the inside. Knowing that her man still finds her beautiful after so many years will make her appreciate you more and become more indulgent with you both emotionally and sexually. In fact, passing compliments during sex is even better as it brings out the best in her and also the best in you.
